Tip #5 - Lessons Learned

There are some brides that can recited the Emily Post wedding etiquette by heart and there are others, that don't.

Here are few lessons learned and some that are just plain common sense:

1. You are not going to make everyone happy.
2. Don't put your registry on your invitations. A registry is only acceptable on shower invitations and wedding websites (hint: you can add your website address on the invitation).
3. Don't invite someone you don't really want attending, even if you think they won't come (they might surprise you!)
4. It's OK not to include children. Some guests might be offended, but it's at your expense, not theirs. Just remember to keep it fair; you can't pick and choose which children are invited. It's all or nothing.
5. It is impossible to make everyone happy (see #1).
6. If you are planning a brunch the day after the wedding, make sure it does not conflict with NFL Football.
7. Order/purchase items early!!! Items break, get lost in the mail, are on back order, end up being ugly, etc. You want time as your ally, not an enemy.
8. Listen to peoples opinions. You don't have to follow their advice, but you never know when you'll hear a good idea!
9. Check and recheck your guest list. Confirm addresses, name spellings, etc.
10. Do what makes you happy. You are the only one (and hopefully the groom) that will remember your wedding day forever. Not your Aunt Betty who couldn't bring her 10 kids.

Have Fun!